For a guy who posts as much as you do (albeit mostly drunken ranting) you seem to fail to understand any of your fellow posters ....
FYI - First Spurs game 1965, season ticket holder from 1971-2005 (emigrated to Thailand) I've probably forgotten more games, and more players, than you've even seen .... and I still fly the 10,000 mile round trip every year just to see the lads live .....
That doesn't make me a 'better' fan than you, but it does mean I have some idea what I'm talking about .... this Spurs side has more 'bottle' than pretty much any side of the last forty years .... if you can't see that from the results, the constant improvement, the sense of togetherness ... than I'm genuinely sorry for you ....
If you 'thing' is wallowing in self-pity and dejection that's fair enough .... however after a crushing result like last night's the last thing people want to read is your puerile whingeing, told you so, Clash knows better, rhetoric ....
If that's your thing might I suggest the South London Nomads are more your style ... it's just a thought