I don't need to "calm down" thx....
I'm talking more broadly than
CarrieFi
's comment at this point......
(Sorry if it felt that I was continuing to wag a finger at you Carrie; I wasn't suggesting you were an apologist.).
No. Not especially...... It's only a loose analogy regarding jumping the gun with ready-made excuses (of which there are number accumulating in this thread and beyond.... "Gold-diggers", "poor maladjusted football millionaires" etc. etc.).......
Want another one? .......So-called gambling "addict" Ivan Toney (who hasn't the slightest remorse nor accountability).
LOL..... You think.
If (!!!) I'm an addict with a sleazy problem that I'd prefer not to subject my family too; there are less brazen ways to go about it that inviting my mates and a bunch of hookers round for a fuck-party or having 2 love-children with the same woman over the space of a number or years.
(I was just watching a video about borderline child abuse this morning where the whistleblower has since become vilified as a grass due to some really shaky sentiment.... So yeh, 'excuse culture' is kinda fresh in my mind.)