Remember when you went clubbing? There were fantastic girls who wouldn't look at you, pretty girls that flirted with you, average girls who were quite interested, and girls who you wouldn't entertain.
(Notice I was not uncomplimentary about the last category, we'll have no Presidents Club nonsense here!)
But when you smartened up your act, dressed better, were successful in your job, and behaved like a gentleman, the fantastic girls started to flirt with you, the average girls smartened up and some of the ones you weren't interested in suddenly caught your eye.
If you you keep doing that, you won't need to wait for the slow records.