You have no need to apologise for your post IMHO.I apologised to him if I came over as someone trying to 'police' this place and for nothing else. Maybe I do always try to see the best in people but I shall certainly bear your post in mind and see how things pan out in the future. Cheers.....
I doubt you are any different face to face than you are on here.
The abuse monsters would never behave like they do, because they would end up picking their teeth out of their shoelaces.