I'm not sure that's true. Is a simple tap in a yard from goal into an open net worth more in this context than the ice-cold-blood-in-your-veins needed to score (for example) a penalty in the dying minutes in a high-pressure match?
Kane and Salah's cold-bloodedness from the spot is astonishing, as was Benzema's panenka vs the Chavs.
I think the sharing it solution is actually the fairest. It doesn't mean any less for all concerned and everyone is 90% happy.
After all, at the end of the day it's an honorary award, I don't think there has to be one absolute winner and one loser