I didnt know you were autistic so i understand.I'm not a woman (and you should not consider that all women or all men are the same, that's an incredibly backward way of thinking), I'm simply autistic, which for me means taking words quite literally, and trying to understand their meaning perhaps more than most people might do. That does sometimes make it difficult for me to understand English when it is used by people who don't have it as their first language, as I tend to notice quirks or unusual usages more than most people would. Sorry if it came across as offensive, it most certainly wasn't intended to, I was merely trying to understand what you were on about.
Having said all of that, if you say something on an internet forum that seems a bit out of kilter with what everyone else is saying (i.e. your comments about our away and home form), then it is likely that someone will ask about it, and may analyse the details. That's not 'overthinking', it's simply trying to understand what the fuck someone is on about when they something that sounds weird given the current context.
Just one thing before we move on: Women and men are not the same and it is not a backward thinking.
Its facts. Don't let those woke, feminist pride lgbtqabcdefg people tell you other wise.
