I'll stipulate to the Palace and Ipswich games etc...
However I can't agree with you on Vic. Or even Romero even though he's been poor at times.
When VDV went down (the first time) I was worried for the league season. When Vic went down I knew what has happened would happen. Forster and Drag have done fine in their limited way but they can't possibly replace the dynamism and ball ability of those they replaced. It s fucked us going both ways.
Only Gray is anywhere near calm and good enough on the ball but he doesn't have VDV's recover pace so... fucked again.
None of which gainsays any of your points about other losses but let's be serious - our squad is threadbare and we lost 3 of the most important cogs in it. We won't get anywhere until they come back (we certainly won't find the requisite quality in January)
I remember when Liverpool lost all their centre backs and I believe Alisson too ( I think Adrian had to play) and they ended up still getting top four. They obviously weren't as good, but through a genuinely top coach and some adaptations, they remained a competitive football team. The guys playing were league 1/championship level at best. We have premier league quality footballers in these roles.
Of course we aren't and can't be the same team whilst missing these players, but a top coach shouldn't need it to grind our results during difficult periods. These are the kind of times the manager makes his bloody money. If we can only pick up results when everything is gucci (we still weren't!!!) then what is the point of him?