That's a false equivalence. Regardless of sending that message I think he's a sick fuck. I've heard people talk about ex's like that in certain situations and it's been fine.
You might say « it’s fine » but I think if there were texts from Partey saying he wanted to burn her corpse and fuck her charred remains then there would be a lot of shock and anger on here. People would be saying « Partey is fucked up » and there’d be 20 agrees.
So the point is not really about a creating an equivalence. It’s about the way people are coming to conclusions.
It’s indisputable that Heard has more evidence of abuse than what Chau is bringing but at the very least the same ie.
- recordings where she accuses Depp of abuse and he avoids the accusations and says everything will be ok,
- years of messages from therapists or medical professionals detailing the abuse
…just like Chau has posted. If Heard had posted messages in 2016 on Twitter showing these , directly accusing Depp then you would take her side … because the situations would be identical as far as you knew. Right down to Heard breaking an NDA.
(Ironically Heard did far less, just co-writing an article that didn’t even mention Depp).
Why have you not afforded Partey the same grace you afforded Depp? You haven’t even heard from Partey yet.
The reality is that if Partey is ever charged and ends up in court he will employ the same tactics that Depp and other abusers do - Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender. They’ll say all the accusations are false, they’ll malign Chau’s character - painting her as unstable or a money grabber or an alcoholic… they’ll say that Chau was the one that instigated all sexual contact and that she is lying in messages… they’ll look to get any evidence which looks bad on Partey struck from the record.
And any lawyer worth their salt will do that because it’s so effective.
Basically, I think so many people on here are full of shit. They pick sides when it suits them and go with the flow online… picking whatever side makes them feel most sanctimonious.