Personally, I think people should concentrate on what is communicated - not how it is communicated.
I listened to Poch repeat "I think we play berry well" every match for week after week when we'd looked like headless chickens in his diamond formation. That's the kind of thing that pisses me off, or a manager doing what Ange turned into, acting like he couldn't hear booing, didn't cup his ear to the fans, that there's no issue with set pieces when we conceded from them constantly. Like trying to tell everyone they're wrong about something obvious.
Or, as much as Tim was on-point in his criticisms, hearing him or Conte veer away from "us" and more to "them". Those kind of things are more powerful insinuations in words
I feel like the criticism in this current part of the thread is just the most absurd excuse to try and make something out of nothing, based on the fact he has mannerisms.