Not really the same scenario.
Ange wants to be here, wants to change the mentality and wants to win with this club.
Conte didn't want to be here. Was likely to never be here beyond his second season and went out all guns blazing.
Oddly, those who didn't have an issue with what Conte said, seem to be offended by what Ange said. Funny that.
There's no way of knowing if Ange is the right man for the job or not without letting him try and change that mentality, getting rid of the players he thinks are weak and getting in players who will improve us.
Again, completely different scenario.
If this wasn't a game in which 90% of the fanbase wanted to see their own team lose, the team HE manages. You wouldn't have seen this reaction and no one would have given a toss.
It really is okay for a professional manager who wants to win to have a different opinion and belief of an actual Spurs fan, you know. He's not here to be a Spurs fan. He's in a results business in which he is judged on results.