You do know there are gay Muslims right?
I think you need to be more specific about whether you have a problem with Muslims or Islam itself. There are many tolerant Muslims, just as there are many tolerant catholics or Hindus. Lots of Muslims I know couldn't give a shit if someone's gay, trans or whatever.
In all religions there are factions of extremists that hate anything that doesn't adhere to their religious 'book' verbatim. I know I was brought up Catholic, but have no belief or respect for the church, which is the most bigoted institution there is.
I think you're coming across pretty bad on this.
Why not just see people as people, good and bad.
There are black white supremacists, a few exceptions don't really mean anything.
Again, as I've said in several earlier posts, homophobia is not universal among Muslims nor is it unique to them.
I concede that I should be more specific, I do mean that ISLAM, not Muslims need to be attacked. I don't want to dehumanise Muslims, like you, I've got Muslim friends, and my own family is Muslim. I'd rather attack the ideology than the person, but unfortunately, Muslims almost universally have the opposite view, "bad people corrupting the true message of Islam".
All religions have extremist factions, but Islam is extremist at the source, the moderates are the "impure" ones. Islam's great problem that other religions don't have is just how strongly it is able to influence its adherents.
It's hard for a Muslim to leave Islam because of threats of violence, social exclusion, prison sentences etc. which is not really as significant a problem in any other religious group.
My "warning" is exactly for people like you, who are raised CofE, Catholic etc, have highly westernised liberal "muslim" friends, and so assume that Islam is like every other religion.