Right? That's the point though isn't it? "You never lose, you win or you learn" that's what he is trying to teach by getting them angry after losses, anger in sports can drive a player to become better if it's controlled correctly, it can force them to analyse their mistakes and want to improve upon them (learn from them.)
Crawling into a hole and feeling sorry for themselves is not the way to improve, that's how they continue the trend of making mistakes because instead of reflecting and being angry about failing they are feeling sorry for themselves and shrugging it off as a bad day at the office.
All I am saying is, I think Mourinhos approach is better in that regard, now like I said, if it works or not is a different matter altogether.
You can deliver that winning mentality, that winning thought process to the players but if they aren't receptive to it then ultimately it will fail regardless.
Personally I think we lack leaders in the locker room and Jose is going to find that out soon.