Penalties really do get massive media attention, which makes me wonder if that's why they don't get those "wrong" as often.
I agree on the fact refs book our players in a blink, but it's even worse than that, they're giving soft, really soft, free kicks against us at every opportunity. It really destroys any momentum or opportunity. Ref watch on a Monday morning aren't looking at incidents like that. Refs can get away with influencing the eb and flow of a match without raising any major red flags.
100%
I was explaining this to a fan the other day. If you want to see a perfect example of such a game. Liverpool at home this season.