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Of course you can. Everyone knows a racist joke, doesn't make you racist.Can you say something homophobic and not be a homophobe? I've spent a long time on this planet and didn't know that.
Of course you can. A person is fully capable of using a word without intending to offend or without realising the word is offensive. Indeed, some might have interpreted your insistence that you didn't mean to be a homophobe when using the word "poof" as just that....until you doubled down and said you'd still use it if you knew it could offend and tough titty to anyone who didn't like it.Can you say something homophobic and not be a homophobe? I've spent a long time on this planet and didn't know that.
Would I have asked otherwise?Of course you can. Everyone knows a racist joke, doesn't make you racist.
Does this really need spelling out to you?
How old are you out of interest?Would I have asked otherwise?
Have you never used a homophobic term in public? Did you consider the impact that may have on others? Are you a homophobe?How old are you out of interest?
Have you never used a homophobic term in public? Did you consider the impact that may have on others? Are you a homophobe?
I got bored of you quite some time ago.
No. N/A. No.Have you never used a homophobic term in public? Did you consider the impact that may have on others? Are you a homophobe?
Strange outlook that, people can say all sorts if things it doesnt mean its a cast iron picture of their viewsCan you say something homophobic and not be a homophobe? I've spent a long time on this planet and didn't know that.
I have made comments that could be construed as homophobic, but as I don't consider myself a homophobe, the comments can't be homophobic. Wouldn't that be an interpretation?Strange outlook that, people can say all sorts if things it doesnt mean its a cast iron picture of their views
My age has nothing to do with this.No. N/A. No.
Why didn't you answer my question?
Only a homo would hang a cock on their wall....
I'm not in public on here. Besides. "Homo" is just a shortening of homosexual (or homosapien, homoerectus, etc).My age has nothing to do with this.
And you've never used a homophobic term in public?
Wow, you're pretty thick. ochfacepalm: You seem unable to separate intent from what is prima facie homophobic. You might not be a homophobe, but the comment can still in of itself be homophobic.I have made comments that could be construed as homophobic, but as I don't consider myself a homophobe, the comments can't be homophobic. Wouldn't that be an interpretation?
A forum that anyone can become a member of isn't public? Homo is an ok thing to call someone because it's a shortening of homosexual? Behave yourself.I'm not in public on here. Besides. "Homo" is just a shortening of homosexual (or homosapien, homoerectus, etc).
And yes your age might well have something to do with your attitude.
Do you always have to resort to being sanctimonious? Remember you were all bothered because you were voted into the bin for standing up to the melters? No you weren't. It's because of your "I'm always right" tone and attitude. You make a big play of engaging in debate, then you get personal.Wow, you're pretty thick. ochfacepalm: You seem unable to separate intent from what is prima facie homophobic. You might not be a homophobe, but the comment can still in of itself be homophobic.
Do you not read what is said to you?
No, it isn't. It is a private forum. We post here at the pleasure of the owners and if they decide we shouldn't post any longer then we're gone.A forum that anyone can become a member of isn't public?
Nobody was called a homo, and there is no negative spin about the comment I made. Are you arguing it is embarrassing to be homosexual?Homo is an ok thing to call someone because it's a shortening of homosexual? Behave yourself.
I have made comments that could be construed as homophobic, but as I don't consider myself a homophobe, the comments can't be homophobic. Wouldn't that be an interpretation?
Do you not understand how frustrating it is to keep having to repeating the same thing over and over and for the person you're saying it to not to grasp the comment?Do you always have to resort to being sanctimonious? Remember you were all bothered because you were voted into the bin for standing up to the melters? No you weren't. It's because of your "I'm always right" tone and attitude. You make a big play of engaging in debate, then you get personal.