Gentiles in the kitchen if it's Kosher has a lot of rules - the best rule as a Gentile is just not be in it - want anything in a Jewish household be humble & ask before doing anything. There's pots that are used for specific things also certain knives and forks.
After he said this as we were drunk :-
"I am drunk dear boy & my daughter likes you I would recommend do not go into the kitchen you want something we will give it to you stay at the table where our conversation shall flow"
He then went on about the FA Cup in 1991 where he went to & I watched on TV where I became a Spurs fan we became friends & I still stalk to him to this day.
I keep this info for my friends dating Jewish girls or Boys for clarity :-
Question on non-Jewish cooking by Rabbi David Sperling
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