Yeah, I always bristle at the 'decision-making' critique ie why a player made 1 pass instead of the other. Part of it is they favored making a certain pass rather than another one. Part of it is they may have felt they'd get the defense off balance by going a certain more unpredictable way. I, nor anyone else, can know these things and some assholes like to look like they do by saying "bad decision" when things don't work out. But that's results based and facile. I see it all the time (not talking about you...but don't get caught up in this bullshit). You know, somehting negative's already happened so I say "bad-decision" so it looks like I know what I'm talking about. Nah, not for me.
But the glaring things that break the unwritten rules like don't pass square across the MF, give the ball back to the keeper outside the frame, etc etc etc...breaking those are bad decisions. And everyone can agree on those otherwise they wouldn't have become unwritten rules.