You seem to think that it’s a problem to slate Serges performances instead of sending condolences, yet also that condolences can be given “without being heard”.
Fake news....
You ASKED when it would be appropriate to critique him.... I simply answered (paraphrasing) "perhaps not in the same breath as offering one's condolences".... The suggestion being it makes one's condolences sound rather half-arsed.
Ergo, you don’t need to say or type anything to feel bad for Serge. So no need to pick on what others say.
That’s it.
Nah, that's not "it" at all ( see above).