This is similar rant to what i have read on united forum , but having a manager who take full responsibility , never slate players publicly and have no ego because he has a bad cv, too afraid to be sacked and just feel very grateful to be there , won't bring you anything, United were trophyless since Jose left and will remain like that for awhile. A top manager have to set some level of standard and have to set some level of ambition and they shouldn't allow anything to lower the level. Only a loser said anything is their fault. Those player being paid handsomely because they are also a public figure so they must also be able to handle public criticism, it's not manager job to pamper their ego on public, this isn't kindergarten where a one of the teacher job is to clean all the shite and pamper the children. If you don't like your favorite player being blamed for putting shite performance then that's your problem.
That was a lot more ranty and reactive than anything I posted.
It's not about their public persona or ego, it's about getting the best out of them and you don't do that by publicly admonishing people, not in any workplace not just football. Reactive fans may like the binary, black and white, ' they're not trying, call 'em out bollocks ' but people are a lot more complex than that and as I said there are a myriad of reasons for players having bad games. Not trying is rarely one of them.
Jose doesn't do this because it helps him win more, he does this because that's who he is as a person, defensive, self centred and unwilling to take criticism. We all have egos, how we deal with them defines who we are.
Fergie was a winner, had a big ego and dominated his squad with an iron will - but when interviewed he didn't throw his players under the bus and refused to criticize them publicly whilst they were at the club. Behind closed doors he could and would brutalize them in a way Jose doesn't but he dealt with that away from the press. The players respected him as a result and he had longevity as a result. Jose never has and never will.
Jose is ours and I hope we win the lot with him here but I'm not going to defend behaviour that I think is counter intuitive when trying to get the best out of people and thought that way when he was at other clubs. He wins because he's driven and relentless and desperate to win at almost all costs, not because he slags the team off publicly. It's a reaction to criticism, he deflects, I don't even think it's calculated - it's reactive and part of what drives him as a person, the need to prove others wrong.
Btw I never said anyone should be pampered (I think quite the opposite), didn't mention a favourite player (but if you're talking about Alli he's not even in my top 10 in the current squad) and certainly don't think 'winners' have a tendency to slag their players off publicly. Fergie, Klopp, Pep are 3 examples straight off the top of my head.