Exactly this mentality!Want to win.
Not bothered if we lose.
Weirdly, everyone is bemoaning the fact it's a competition we either don't want to win, or won't win, well you know what? surely that takes some pressure off a win-at-all-costs outlook, and we can loosen the shackles and actually enjoy the game. It's still another European night under the lights, (albeit not the highest profile game) but one we can still celebrate if we win, rather than worrying about the doom and gloom implications if we don't!
I'm viewing it as a slightly more competitive pre-season game/or final game of the season, when there isn't really anything TOO drastic to play for!!
Get through, great, go out, no major damage caused.
Vitesse at home was a great laugh (especially as it was Conte's first game) loved the feeling of the pressure of having to win being off for once!