Being emotional about things doesn't mean one can't maintain a rational perspective of things. One doesn't necessarily negate the other.
Football without the emotions of the fans would almost be "dead". Fan's emotions and football go hand in hand.
So, of course, this whole Kane issue is very emotional, with emotional factors, like: he's a Spurs academy product, one of Spurs' best-ever players & one of the world's best CF at the moment, etc., etc.
My point was simply that this is how the game is and has been, whether we like it or not: big fish eat small fish - Spurs mostly being the big fish, but at times Spurs also turn into a small fish. Supporters in smaller clubs than Spurs - clubs which have much less chance to hold on to their stars - also suffer; like the supporters of Atalanta to the happiness of Spurs supporters (which, btw, was meant as an example and not a like-for-like comparison).
For me, it did not come as a surprise that Kane wanted to force a move and even would skip training – but it was disappointing. And not the right thing to do.
However, I decided to move on for 2 main reasons: I saw the “Kane leaving” thingy coming many months ago (like many others did) and if Kane stays it will create an “unstable” dressing room atmosphere (he was seen as the leader of the team) and despite of him being a professional, it’s bound to affect his performances in a negative way.